{"id":198,"date":"2017-04-10T16:29:27","date_gmt":"2017-04-10T16:29:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/?p=198"},"modified":"2017-11-13T12:11:08","modified_gmt":"2017-11-13T12:11:08","slug":"orgoliul-sau-atunci-cand-prostul-nu-are-nici-o-indoiala-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/04\/10\/orgoliul-sau-atunci-cand-prostul-nu-are-nici-o-indoiala-i\/","title":{"rendered":"Orgoliul …. sau atunci c\u00e2nd \u201eprostul\u201d nu are nici o \u00eendoial\u0103… – prima parte"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Orgoliul, prin p\u0103rerea foarte bun\u0103, exagerat\u0103 \u0219i nejustificat\u0103 despre sine, este tendin\u021ba de a ridica pe un piedestal Eul propriu ca urmare a nelini\u0219tilor generate de frustr\u0103rile noastre. E bine s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m cum s\u0103 ne raport\u0103m la Eul nostru, nici s\u0103-l minimaliz\u0103m, s\u0103-l ignor\u0103m, nici s\u0103-l exalt\u0103m, s\u0103-l inflam\u0103m. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Orgoliul este primul din cele \u0219apte p\u0103cate capitale. Consecin\u021ba acestui p\u0103cat este cea mai puternic\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba unui om: tr\u0103irea vie\u021bii \u00eentr-o zon\u0103 incon\u0219tient\u0103 de sine, dac\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 ne exprim\u0103m metaforic \u2013 cum te na\u0219ti a\u0219a mori… \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Orgoliul a fost \u201evalorizat\u201d indiferent de cultur\u0103 \u0219i perioad\u0103 istoric\u0103: japonezul care \u00ee\u0219i face seppuku, dueli\u0219tii \u0219i muschetarii care ap\u0103rau onoarea femeilor lor sau a conduc\u0103torilor, politicienii care le \u0219tiu pe toate, medicul care \u00een superioritatea lui nu accept\u0103 \u0219i o alt\u0103 variant\u0103, paranoia dictatorilor, megalomania, cu punctul culminant de sacrificare a propriului popor refuz\u00e2nd ajutorul \u00een situa\u021bii critice, superioritatea rasei ariene. R\u0103zboaiele au ca fundament orgoliul, fie c\u0103 e vorba de suprema\u021bii de teritorii, fie c\u0103 e vorba de neacceptarea unei alte religii dec\u00e2t cea personal\u0103. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Orgoliosul e cel care se cunoa\u0219te cel mai pu\u021bin pe sine. Faptul c\u0103 e foarte plin de el, foarte \u00eeng\u00e2nfat, c\u0103 are o p\u0103rere foarte bun\u0103 despre sine, nu va vrea s\u0103 \u0219tie nimic nou \u0219i va r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een autosuficien\u021ba lui, pentru c\u0103 de fapt nu se \u00eendoie\u0219te de nimic ce \u00eel reprezint\u0103. De aici porne\u0219te \u0219i iritarea acestuia atunci c\u00e2nd este contrazis, pentru c\u0103 incon\u0219tient apare frica de a afla un adev\u0103r care nu corespunde standardelor fixate de Eul s\u0103u. Adev\u0103rul e doar adev\u0103rul lui! El \u00ee\u021bi impune propriul program mental de via\u021b\u0103, nu conteaz\u0103 dec\u00e2t proiectul lui, ideile lui, \u201edelirul\u201d lui. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Orgoliul te poate \u00eenr\u0103i, te poate prosti, te poate face ridicol \u00een fa\u021ba celorlal\u021bi \u0219i \u00eencet, \u00eencet, vei fi izolat, s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i \u00een lumea ta perfect\u0103 \u0219i de neclintit. Prostia ca efect al orgoliului nu are nici o leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu inteligen\u021ba individului. Po\u021bi fi inteligent, dar necunoa\u0219terea de sine, nedezvoltarea con\u0219tiin\u021bei de sine, te poate face s\u0103-\u021bi distrugi via\u021ba … ca un prost. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Orgoliosul se simte mai bine dec\u00e2t ceilal\u021bi, e mai \u00eenzestrat, mai \u201esus\u201d, doar cum procedeaz\u0103 el e corect, doar marca lui de ma\u0219in\u0103 e valabil\u0103, de preferin\u021b\u0103 doar Mercedes, doar ceea ce face el e important \u0219i bine pl\u0103tit, doar el are cele mai tari rela\u021bii \u0219i prieteni sus pu\u0219i, doar excursiile pe care le face el sunt cele mai senza\u021bionale, \u0219i nu se ru\u0219ineaz\u0103 c\u00e2tu\u0219i de pu\u021bin \u201es\u0103 te scoat\u0103 la lec\u021bie\u201d ori de c\u00e2te ori v\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lni\u021bi. Indiscutabil el va fi singurul c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103tor! Uneori orgoliosul chiar \u00ee\u0219i pl\u0103nuie\u0219te atacul; se \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219te cu persoane, \u201edu\u0219manii\u201d din mintea lui, doar c\u00e2nd are o \u201ebomb\u0103\u201d de aruncat: Am f\u0103cut asta, am cump\u0103rat asta, voi face asta, eu…. eu…. eu…. Dac\u0103 cumva intri \u00een jocul lui \u0219i \u00eel contrazici spun\u00e2nd p\u0103rerea ta timid\u0103, \u0219ansele de a ie\u0219i ne\u0219ifonat sunt practic zero! \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Sunt femei care se laud\u0103 cu frumuse\u021bea lor, dar de fapt ea nu a f\u0103cut nimic pentru asta; n-ai nici un merit c\u0103 e\u0219ti blond\u0103 cu ochii verzi! Orgoliosului nu ai ce s\u0103-i dai! Nu-i trebuie nimic… nu are nevoie de ajutorul t\u0103u, el \u00ee\u0219i d\u0103 practic totul. E ambi\u021bios, vrea mereu func\u021bii, are poft\u0103 de stima altora, pozi\u021bii, onoruri, vrea s\u0103 fie v\u0103zut cu persoane importante. Orgoliosul se place foarte mult \u0219i nimeni nu e mai frumos \u0219i mai inteligent dec\u00e2t el. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Sinuciderea, deci suprimarea Eului, este forma cea mai \u00eenalt\u0103 de orgoliu. Nimic din ceea ce m\u0103 \u00eenconjoar\u0103 nu m\u0103 merit\u0103, dac\u0103 eu dispar se va face o gaur\u0103 \u00een cer, f\u0103r\u0103 mine nimic nu va mai exista, m\u0103 voi r\u0103zbuna pe cei r\u0103ma\u0219i, care \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it \u00ee\u0219i vor da seama ce au pierdut.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Eul adus la cote \u00eenalte, de necontrolat, devine otrav\u0103 pentru suflet.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Efectele ne\u00eembl\u00e2nzirii orgoliului:<\/span><\/p>\n