{"id":287,"date":"2017-10-31T21:37:57","date_gmt":"2017-10-31T21:37:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/?p=287"},"modified":"2017-10-31T21:37:57","modified_gmt":"2017-10-31T21:37:57","slug":"cum-iti-ajuti-copilul-sa-accepte-venirea-pe-lume-a-unui-alt-copil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/10\/31\/cum-iti-ajuti-copilul-sa-accepte-venirea-pe-lume-a-unui-alt-copil\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum \u00ee\u0163i aju\u0163i copilul s\u0103 accepte venirea pe lume a unui alt copil"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-289\" src=\"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/arata_img-3-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/arata_img-3-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/arata_img-3.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Pentru un copil care este \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 i se acorde toat\u0103 aten\u0163ia, apari\u0163ia \u00een familie a unui alt copil poate p\u0103rea o competi\u0163ie. Copilul mai mare se poate sim\u0163i \u00eenl\u0103turat \u0219i totodat\u0103 for\u0163at s\u0103 se maturizeze cauz\u00e2nd ulterior probleme pe termen scurt sau lung at\u00e2t p\u0103rin\u0163ilor c\u00e2t \u0219i copiilor.\u00a0<\/span><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ca \u0219i p\u0103rinte poate fi dificil s\u0103 oferi ambilor copii toat\u0103 aten\u0163ia de care au nevoie. Exist\u0103 diverse metode prin care \u00ee\u0163i po\u0163i face copiii s\u0103 se simt\u0103 valoriza\u0163i.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Perioada dinaintea na\u0219terii nou n\u0103scutului<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">1.Implic\u0103-\u0163i copiii mai mari \u00een perioada sarcinii<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ai foarte mult timp la dispozi\u0163ie p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd vei na\u0219te, a\u0219a c\u0103 folose\u0219te timpul \u00een a\u0219a fel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 facilitezi tranzi\u0163ia. Te po\u0163i folosi de c\u00e2teva din metodele urm\u0103toare &#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Eplic\u0103-i copilului lucrurile care se vor \u00eent\u00e2mpla \u00eenainte \u0219i dup\u0103 na\u0219terea noului n\u0103scut.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Evit\u0103 s\u0103-i spui copilului c\u0103 noul n\u0103scut va fi \u201ccineva cu care se va juca\u201d sau \u201ccel mai bun prieten al t\u0103u\u201d &#8211; cu c\u00e2t copilul t\u0103u este mai mic cu at\u00e2t acest lucru va fi mai crucial. F\u0103-l s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u0103 pentru c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni noul n\u0103scut va dormi, va m\u00e2nca, se va uita de jur \u00eemprejur, \u00ee\u0219i va face nevoile \u0219i va pl\u00e2nge. Fii explicit mai ales cu pl\u00e2nsul \u2013 expic\u0103-i c\u0103 unii copii pl\u00e2ng foarte mult \u0219i asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 este vina cuiva.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Ia o papu\u0219\u0103 de juc\u0103rie \u0219i \u00eenva\u0163\u0103-\u0163i copilul cum s\u0103 \u00eengijeasc\u0103 noul n\u0103scut.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Ofera-i copilului posibilitatea s\u0103 aleag\u0103 unul din numele noului n\u0103scut. Acest lucru poate fi f\u0103cut d\u00e2ndu-i o list\u0103 cu nume pe care nu te-ar deranja dac\u0103 noul n\u0103scut l-ar avea.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Cite\u0219te-i copilului pove\u0219ti cu fra\u0163i \u0219i surori, despre felul cum ar trebui s\u0103 se comporte \u0219i modele pozitive pentru felul \u00een care ar trebui s\u0103 se comporte.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Este foarte important s\u0103 vorbi\u0163i despre acest subiect nu foarte des pentru a nu obosi \u0219i plictisi copilul; totodat\u0103 unii copii pot deveni anxiosi repet\u00e2ndu-le din nou \u0219i din nou acelea\u0219i lucruri.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">2.Aminte\u0219te-i copilului t\u0103u c\u0103 \u0219i el\/ea a fost c\u00e2ndva un nou n\u0103scut.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Folosind un limbaj adecvat \u00een func\u0163ie de v\u00e2rsta copilului t\u0103u \u0219i cuvinte frumoase, spune-i copilului t\u0103u despre na\u0219terea sa \u0219i ceea ce a f\u0103cut-o s\u0103 fie special\u0103. Acest lucru \u00eel va face s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 emo\u0163iile prin care treci \u0219i de ce e\u0219ti a\u0219a de bucuroas\u0103 de venirea pe lume a noului nascut.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <strong>Perioada c\u00e2nd noul n\u0103scut vine pe lume<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">1.Men\u0163ine rutina zilnic\u0103 a copilului c\u00e2t mai normal posibil \u00eenainte, \u00een timpul \u0219i dup\u0103 apari\u0163ia noului n\u0103scut. \u00cencearc\u0103 s\u0103 men\u0163ii o normalitate pentru ca ceilal\u0163i membri ai familiei s\u0103 nu simt\u0103 c\u0103 noul n\u0103scut va schimba totul.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">2.Descoper\u0103 moduri pozitive \u00een care copilul s\u0103 interac\u0163ioneze cu noul n\u0103scut. Copilul poate \u0163ine noul n\u0103scut \u00een bra\u0163e (supraveghea\u0163i, copiii mai mici pot sta a\u0219eza\u0163i pe pat cu picioarele \u00eentinse, iar noul n\u0103scut s\u0103 fie a\u0219ezat pe o pern\u0103 pe picioarele copilului), poate s\u0103-i c\u00e2nte, s\u0103-i citeasc\u0103 pove\u0219ti, s\u0103-l \u00eenve\u0163e s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103 etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">3.Recompenseaz\u0103 comportamentul pozitiv, astfel copilul va asocia faptul c\u0103 dac\u0103 va fi un bun frate\/o bun\u0103 sor\u0103, va avea p\u0103rin\u0163i ferici\u0163i \u0219i o familie fericit\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">4.C\u00e2t mai mult posibil ignor\u0103 comportamentele negative ale copilului t\u0103u. F\u0103-l s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i poate atrage aten\u0163ia doar f\u0103c\u00e2nd lucruri pozitive precum aducerea unui scutec curat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">5.\u00cencearc\u0103 s\u0103-i vorbe\u0219ti noului n\u0103scut despre fratele\/sora mai mare atunci c\u00e2nd acesta se afl\u0103 prin preajm\u0103: \u201cUite ce de\u0219tept e fratele\/sora ta mai mare, \u0219i-a f\u0103cut patul singur\/singur\u0103.\u201d ; \u201cC\u00e2nd vei cre\u0219te mai mare, fratele\/sora ta te poate \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a cum s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i \u00eenchei \u0219ireturile la papuci.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">6.Nu l\u0103sa totul \u00eentotdeauna c\u00e2nd noul n\u0103scut \u00eencepe s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103. De foarte multe ori copilul t\u0103u va trebui s\u0103 a\u0219tepte \u00een momentul \u00een care tu ai grij\u0103 de noul n\u0103scut. C\u00e2teodat\u0103, las\u0103 noul n\u0103scut s\u0103 te a\u0219tepte.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">7.Petrece timp cu copilul t\u0103u, mai ales dac\u0103 petreci timp separat doar cu nou n\u0103scutul. Acest lucru \u00eel va face pe copil s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u0103 este timp \u0219i doar pentru voi doi. Chiar \u0219i un drum p\u00e2n\u0103 la un magazin din apropiere doar voi doi \u00eel va face s\u0103 se simt\u0103 bine \u0219i bucuros.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">8.Petrece timp \u00eempreun\u0103 cu familia \u0219i f\u0103 lucruri frumoase. Arat\u0103-i copilului c\u0103 noul n\u0103scut este parte din familie chiar dac\u0103 nu poate s\u0103 fac\u0103 nimic dec\u00e2t s\u0103 stea \u00een prezen\u0163a voastr\u0103. Pl\u0103nuie\u0219te de exemplu ie\u0219iri \u00een parc unde se poate juca copilul mai mare \u0219i s\u0103 fie prezent \u0219i noul n\u0103scut.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Psiholog clinician \u2013 psihoterapeut<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"> Eliza \u2013 Geanina\u00a0Cogian<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Copierea sau reproducerea f\u0103r\u0103 men\u021bionarea sursei este strict interzis\u0103!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Pentru un copil care este \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 i se acorde toat\u0103 aten\u0163ia, apari\u0163ia \u00een familie a unui alt copil poate p\u0103rea o competi\u0163ie. Copilul mai mare se poate sim\u0163i \u00eenl\u0103turat \u0219i totodat\u0103 for\u0163at s\u0103 se maturizeze cauz\u00e2nd ulterior probleme pe termen scurt sau lung at\u00e2t p\u0103rin\u0163ilor c\u00e2t \u0219i copiilor.\u00a0<br \/>\n <a class=\"read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/10\/31\/cum-iti-ajuti-copilul-sa-accepte-venirea-pe-lume-a-unui-alt-copil\/\">READ MORE<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":289,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articole","category-parinti-si-copii"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/arata_img-3.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=287"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/287\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":295,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/287\/revisions\/295"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/289"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}