{"id":328,"date":"2017-11-12T19:44:52","date_gmt":"2017-11-12T19:44:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/?p=328"},"modified":"2018-02-27T12:37:20","modified_gmt":"2018-02-27T12:37:20","slug":"cum-trec-peste-pierderea-animalului-de-companie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/2017\/11\/12\/cum-trec-peste-pierderea-animalului-de-companie\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum trec peste pierderea animalului de companie?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 De obicei, articolele despre animalele de companie ne informeaz\u0103 despre s\u0103n\u0103tatea lor, dresaj, vestimenta\u021bie haute couture sau clasic\u0103, hairstyle \u0219i alimenta\u021bie. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Din p\u0103cate, de prea pu\u021bine ori, ni se vorbe\u0219te despre situa\u021bii din via\u021ba noastr\u0103 peste care suntem nevoi\u021bi s\u0103 trecem atunci c\u00e2nd avem un anim\u0103lu\u021b care ne bucur\u0103 sufletul.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"Recunosc c\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 de cur\u00e2nd, nu m-am g\u00e2ndit nici o clip\u0103 la acest eveniment care poate face parte din via\u021ba unora dintre noi dar, de ceva vreme, avem un nou membru de familie, o minune de buldog francez. S\u0103 v\u0103 povestesc c\u00e2t e de extraordinar nu cred c\u0103 e necesar… oricum e… cel mai cel! Presupun c\u0103, cei care ave\u021bi un anim\u0103lu\u021b de companie \u0219ti\u021bi deja asta! Ca orice alegere pe care o facem \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103, ea vine \u201ela pachet\u201d cu avantaje \u0219i dezavantaje. Animalul de companie ne aduce bucurie, entuziasm, poate fi \u201epansament emo\u021bional\u201d la nevoie, un ajutor de n\u0103dejde \u00een cre\u0219terea copiilor sau pentru persoanele cu dizabilit\u0103\u021bi motrice, vizuale. Vrem sau nu, el va deveni elementul central al familiei, modific\u00e2nd obiceiuri, comportamente, specifice familiei p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een acel moment. S\u0103 recuno\u0219tem c\u0103, nu de pu\u021bine ori, aceste modific\u0103ri ale dinamicii familiale sunt incomode. Ata\u0219amentul dezvoltat \u00eentre noul membru de familie \u0219i ceilal\u021bi devine foarte puternic: \u00eel trat\u0103m ca pe propriul copil, \u00eei vorbim, \u201epunem vorbe \u00een gura lui\u201d \u0219i ne amuz\u0103m copios, dezvolt\u0103m o empatie greu de \u00een\u021beles pentru persoanele care nu sunt \u00een aceast\u0103 situa\u021bie. Faptul c\u0103 noi \u0219tim c\u0103 aceast\u0103 fiin\u021b\u0103 are o durat\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103 mult mai scurt\u0103 dec\u00e2t a noastr\u0103, ne poate determina s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim vinova\u021bi atunci c\u00e2nd nu oferim totul \u00een acest\u0103 rela\u021bie. De aici \u0219i acest ata\u0219ament deosebit de puternic, care va avea un rol important \u00een gestionarea emo\u021biilor \u00een caz de pierdere, deces, situa\u021bii de boal\u0103.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Cu c\u00e2t animalul are o inteligen\u021b\u0103 mai dezvoltat\u0103, mai apropiat\u0103 de cea uman\u0103, cu c\u00e2t comunic\u0103m mai bine cu el, cu at\u00e2t pierderea va fi suportat\u0103 mai greu. \u00cen afar\u0103 de pierderea propriu-zis\u0103, accidental\u0103, furt, decesul poate fi dat de fenomenul de \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nire, de un accident nefericit, boal\u0103 \u0219i chiar eutanasiere. Indiferent de felul cum survine pierderea, aceasta va produce o ran\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103 profund\u0103 \u0219i un gol emo\u021bional greu de \u00eenlocuit.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 La fel ca \u0219i \u00een cazul pierderilor umane, cel mai u\u0219or de gestionat este decesul firesc, natural, dat de fenomenul de \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nire. De\u0219i a\u0219teptat\u0103, dispari\u021bia este resim\u021bit\u0103 greu la nivel emo\u021bional, dar mult mai u\u0219or dec\u00e2t \u00een celelalte cazuri. Membrii familiei \u00ee\u0219i gestioneaz\u0103 suferin\u021ba recadr\u00e2nd situa\u021bia: \u201eA fost cel mai fericit c\u0103\u021belu\u0219…. i-am dat tot ce a fost mai bun…ne-am jucat cu el de fiecare dat\u0103… a fost iubit… a fost fericit… at\u00e2t a fost s\u0103 fie…\u201d\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Celelalte situa\u021bii, de moarte accidental\u0103, pierdere, boal\u0103 sau eutanasiere, sunt mai greu de suportat, at\u00e2t prin prisma faptului c\u0103 poate fi o emo\u021bie \u0219oc, nea\u0219teptat\u0103, dar poate apare \u0219i sentimentul de vinov\u0103\u021bie: \u201eN-am fost suficient de aten\u021bi… n-am avut grij\u0103 cum ar fi trebuit… dac\u0103…. dac\u0103… dac\u0103…\u201d. Vinov\u0103\u021bia este o emo\u021bie greu de gestionat, av\u00e2nd nevoie de un travaliu personal \u0219i profund. Este important s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi, la un moment dat, alegem solu\u021bia care ni se pare cea mai bun\u0103. Nimeni, niciodat\u0103, except\u00e2nd patologia, nu dore\u0219te s\u0103 fac\u0103 r\u0103u unui suflet pe care \u00eel iube\u0219te \u0219i l\u00e2ng\u0103 care \u00ee\u0219i petrece bucuria. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Perioada de doliu aduce cu sine triste\u021be, modific\u0103ri de program, comportamentale, momente c\u00e2nd \u00eei sim\u021bim prezen\u021ba, c\u00e2nd ni se pare c\u0103 e momentul s\u0103 apar\u0103 de undeva…. Trist, dar adev\u0103rat! Fiecare dintre noi parcurge perioada de doliu diferit, unii mai greu, al\u021bii mai u\u0219or. Indiferent de situa\u021bie, este bine s\u0103 nu for\u021ba\u021bi adaptarea la noul context lu\u00e2ndu-v\u0103 un alt animal \u00eenainte de terminarea travaliului de doliu. Noul animal de companie are nevoie de iubire, aten\u021bie, respect \u0219i nu trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 rol de panaceu pentru familia \u00een care a venit.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>
\nTu ai curaj s\u0103 iube\u0219ti ceva ce \u0219tii c\u0103 sigur vei pierde?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Psiholog clinician \u2013 psihoterapeut<\/span>
\nAntoanela \u2013 Carmen\u00a0Cogian<\/span><\/p>\n

Copierea sau reproducerea f\u0103r\u0103 men\u021bionarea sursei este strict interzis\u0103!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 De obicei, articolele despre animalele de companie ne informeaz\u0103 despre s\u0103n\u0103tatea lor, dresaj, vestimenta\u021bie haute couture sau clasic\u0103, hairstyle \u0219i alimenta\u021bie.
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