{"id":364,"date":"2018-12-18T16:01:50","date_gmt":"2018-12-18T16:01:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/?p=364"},"modified":"2018-12-18T16:15:56","modified_gmt":"2018-12-18T16:15:56","slug":"nevoia-vitala-de-creativitate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/12\/18\/nevoia-vitala-de-creativitate\/","title":{"rendered":"Nevoia vital\u0103 de creativitate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-366\" src=\"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Nevoia-vitala-de-creativitate-214x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"214\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Nevoia-vitala-de-creativitate-214x300.jpg 214w, https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Nevoia-vitala-de-creativitate.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 214px) 100vw, 214px\" \/>Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 a\u021bi avut ceva timp \u00een ultimii 10 ani, de exemplu, ca s\u0103 con\u0219tientiza\u021bi cu ce vitez\u0103 evolu\u0103m! Chiar ieri am v\u0103zut o \u0219tire care spunea c\u0103 peste 10, 12 ani, o ma\u0219in\u0103 blocat\u0103 \u00een trafic \u00ee\u0219i va putea desface patru \u201earipioare\u201d cu care \u00ee\u0219i va lua zborul.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Nu vreau s\u0103-l invoc pe Nostradamus sau pe Nikola Tesla, dar \u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 acum\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">40 de ani \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103torul meu ne spunea c\u0103 va veni vremea c\u00e2nd ne vom pune un rucsac \u00een spate \u0219i vom zbura p\u00e2n\u0103 la un prieten din cealalt\u0103 parte a ora\u0219ului. \u00cenc\u0103 pu\u021bin&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Din p\u0103cate&#8230; sau din fericire&#8230; nu putem \u0219ti ce va fi peste 5 ani, c\u00e2t de util ne poate fi ceea ce \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m ast\u0103zi la \u0219coal\u0103, dat\u0103 fiind \u201eviteza de deplasare\u201d! \u0218i acum \u00eemi amintesc c\u00e2te foi mi-au fost rupte din caietul de caligrafie, c\u00e2t m\u0103 str\u0103duiam pentru un 10, pentru ca, acum, s\u0103 nu mai aud sc\u00e2r\u021b\u00e2itul peni\u021bei ci pocnitul tastelor. \u0218i viteza cre\u0219te!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Pe viitor va deveni mai important\u0103 nu acumularea de informa\u021bii ci capacitatea creierului de a creea, folosind informa\u021biile stocate \u0219i de a se adapta la situa\u021bii noi cu vitez\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai mare. Incapacitatea inadaptabilit\u0103\u021bii la viteza mare cu care \u00eenaint\u0103m \u201ese vede cu ochiul liber\u201d atunci c\u00e2nd privim conflictul dintre genera\u021bii.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 De ce copiii sunt mai creativi? Simplu! Ei \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 riscul de a inventa, de a fi originali, pentru c\u0103 nu au frica de gre\u0219eal\u0103, de a fi judeca\u021bi, de a se face de r\u00e2s, pentru c\u0103 ei nu cunosc \u00eenc\u0103, din fericire, acest mecanism distructiv pentru creier. Ei \u00ee\u0219i permit s\u0103 fac\u0103 orice, oric\u00e2nd \u0219i oricum f\u0103r\u0103 fric\u0103. Dac\u0103 au fric\u0103 de pedeaps\u0103, aceasta este de fapt mult nesemnificativ\u0103 comparativ cu frica de judecativitatea celor din jur prezent\u0103 la adul\u021bi. Dac\u0103 un copil ar avea frica de e\u0219ec, de exemplu, nu ar mai \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 mearg\u0103!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 cuno\u0219ti succesul creativit\u0103\u021bii trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi asumi \u0219i posibilitatea de a gre\u0219i. Din p\u0103cate \u0219coala, societatea, distruge creativitatea prin pedepsirea \u0219i blamarea gre\u0219elilor: la \u0219coal\u0103 sunt scoase \u00een eviden\u021b\u0103 gre\u0219elile, fiind subliniate cu ro\u0219u, trebuie s\u0103 reproduci \u201ea\u0219a\u201d cum \u021bi s-a cerut \u0219i nu \u00een alt mod, trebuie s\u0103 rezolvi \u201ea\u0219a\u201d \u0219i nu altfel. Pedepsirea gre\u0219elii duce \u00een timp la pierderea creativit\u0103\u021bii, adultul ajung\u00e2nd s\u0103 aib\u0103 probleme \u00een toate domeniile de activitate, pe toate ni\u0219ele vie\u021bii sociale, pentru c\u0103 el \u0219tie doar \u201ea\u0219a\u201d. Mai mult! \u00cen orice sistem de \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt nu exist\u0103 dec\u00e2t aceast\u0103 ierarhie clar\u0103 a disciplinelor: matematica, limbile, \u0219tiin\u021bele \u0219i pe ultimul loc artele. La final, omul matur ajunge s\u0103 foloseasc\u0103 \u00een mod preponderent doar jum\u0103tate din creier, pentru c\u0103 de aceast\u0103 jum\u0103tate are nevoie de fapt societatea. Mul\u021bi copii \u00ee\u0219i pierd creativitatea, genialitatea, pentru c\u0103 sunt convin\u0219i de cei din jur c\u0103 nu pot supravie\u021bui cu ceea ce-\u0219i doresc, nu sunt aprecia\u021bi \u0219i chiar stigmatiza\u021bi. C\u0103 drumul e gre\u0219it, spun din nou, \u201ese vede cu ochiul liber\u201d! Diplomele nu mai au nici o valoare, ci e important cum te descurci la locul de munc\u0103: din nou, creativitatea! Cum folose\u0219ti ceea ce \u0219tii! Nu putem tr\u0103i \u00een secolul acesta folosindu-ne de modul de a g\u00e2ndi din secolul trecut.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 De cele mai multe ori c\u00e2nd vorbim despre creativitate ne g\u00e2ndim la domeniul artistic: muzic\u0103, arte plastice, literatur\u0103, dans. Creativitatea e de fapt o tr\u0103s\u0103tur\u0103 de personalitate \u0219i nu presupune s\u0103 pictezi sau s\u0103 dansezi de 10, \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 dai dovad\u0103 de creativitate \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi: s\u0103 \u021bi se aprind\u0103 becule\u021bul, cum se spune, s\u0103 te prinzi, s\u0103 fii spontan, s\u0103 \u00eembini realul cu fantasticul, s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti o rezolvare inedit\u0103 pentru orice situa\u021bie din via\u021ba ta care te pune la \u00eencercare. Creativitatea \u201emerge la bra\u021b\u201d cu \u00eencrederea \u00een sine, g\u00e2ndirea critic\u0103, independen\u021ba, curajul, toleran\u021ba, deschiderea la nou. Creativitatea este un colaj \u00eentre imagina\u021bie, emo\u021bie \u0219i g\u00e2ndire.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 V\u00e2rful piramidei trebuin\u021belor a lui Maslow este ocupat cu onoare de creativitate, spontaneitate, lipsa prejudec\u0103\u021bilor, acceptarea de sine. Cu c\u00e2t o persoan\u0103 tinde spre v\u00e2rful piramidei evolu\u021biei personale, cu at\u00e2t ajunge s\u0103 cocheteze cu creativitatea, ca \u00eencununare a flexibilit\u0103\u021bii min\u021bii sale, ca valorificare a unicit\u0103\u021bii sale.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00cen psihoterapie, care e specialitatea mea, este u\u0219or s\u0103 reperezi lipsa creativit\u0103\u021bii, a inflexibilit\u0103\u021bii mentale, a inadaptabilit\u0103\u021bii, acestea fiind expresia rezisten\u021bei la schimbare a persoanei. Cu c\u00e2t mintea ta este mai cristalizat\u0103 \u00een prejudec\u0103\u021bi, reguli pentru tine \u0219i cei din jur, \u0219abloane \u0219i tipare de evaluare, cu at\u00e2t creativitatea ta se va l\u0103sa a\u0219teptat\u0103 \u0219i de aici se va l\u0103sa a\u0219teptat \u0219i succesul t\u0103u \u00een via\u021ba personal\u0103 \u0219i profesional\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <strong>\u00a0 Ce po\u021bi face pentru tine \u0219i copilul t\u0103u?<\/strong> Simplu!&#8230;. Glumesc!<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Accept\u0103-te a\u0219a cum e\u0219ti \u0219i f\u0103-l s\u0103 se simt\u0103 \u0219i el acceptat pentru tot ceea ce este \u0219i pentru tot ceea ce face; valorizeaz\u0103-te \u0219i valorizeaz\u0103-\u021bi copilul;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Nu te critica \u0219i nu-l critica; eviden\u021biaz\u0103 doar calit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i reu\u0219itele tale \u0219i ale copilului t\u0103u;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Fii bl\u00e2nd cu tine, accept\u0103 gre\u0219eala; fii empatic \u0219i f\u0103-l s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 are dreptul s\u0103 gre\u0219easc\u0103;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Oare cum s-ar schimba lumea dac\u0103 am \u00eencuraja ac\u021biunea \u0219i am normaliza gre\u0219eala?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Psiholog clinician \u2013 psihoterapeut<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"> Antoanela \u2013 Carmen\u00a0Cogian<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Copierea sau reproducerea f\u0103r\u0103 men\u021bionarea sursei este strict interzis\u0103!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 a\u021bi avut ceva timp \u00een ultimii 10 ani, de exemplu, ca s\u0103 con\u0219tientiza\u021bi cu ce vitez\u0103 evolu\u0103m! Chiar ieri am v\u0103zut o \u0219tire care spunea c\u0103 peste 10, 12 ani, o ma\u0219in\u0103 blocat\u0103 \u00een trafic \u00ee\u0219i va putea desface patru \u201earipioare\u201d cu care \u00ee\u0219i va lua zborul.\u00a0\u00a0<br \n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":366,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-364","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-parinti-si-copii"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Nevoia-vitala-de-creativitate.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/364","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=364"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/364\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":465,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/364\/revisions\/465"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/366"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=364"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=364"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=364"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}