{"id":373,"date":"2018-04-19T10:24:26","date_gmt":"2018-04-19T10:24:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/?p=373"},"modified":"2018-04-19T10:24:26","modified_gmt":"2018-04-19T10:24:26","slug":"autoagresiunea-si-taierea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/04\/19\/autoagresiunea-si-taierea\/","title":{"rendered":"Autoagresiunea \u0219i t\u0103ierea"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 De ce ar dori cineva s\u0103 se taie? O ac\u0163iune at\u00e2t de ciudat\u0103 pentru cei mai mul\u0163i dintre noi, autoagresiunea f\u0103r\u0103 inten\u0163ie de sinucidere cum ar fi t\u0103ierea, arderea sau zg\u00e2rierea inten\u0163ionat\u0103, este o problem\u0103 major\u0103 pe care majoritatea oamenilor nu o \u00een\u0163eleg prea mult. <\/span><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-374\" src=\"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/AUTOAGRESIUNEA-SI-TAIEREA-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/AUTOAGRESIUNEA-SI-TAIEREA-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/AUTOAGRESIUNEA-SI-TAIEREA.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/>Estim\u0103rile actuale sugereaz\u0103 c\u0103 aproximaiv 4% sau mai mult din \u00eentreaga popula\u0163ie sufer\u0103 de autoagresiune \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 la 14% dintre adolescen\u0163i recurg la aceast lucru. Autoagresiunea f\u0103r\u0103 inten\u0163ie de sinucidere poate duce deseori la intern\u0103ri de urgen\u0163\u0103 din cauza r\u0103nilor grave, acestea put\u00e2nd provoca leziuni permanente ale nervilor pentru unele persoane.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 De-a lungul timpului au fost folosi\u0163i mai mul\u0163i termeni pentru a defini comportamentul de autoagresiune \u0219i anume: automutilare, violen\u0163\u0103 provocat\u0103 de sine \u0219i\u00a0 termenul din englez\u0103 \u201ecutting\u201d care \u00eenseamn\u0103 t\u0103iere, folosit pentru a desemna toate formele de autoagresiune precum abuzul de sine, comportamentul autodistructiv \u0219i comportamentul de autov\u0103t\u0103mare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Autoagresiunea reflect\u0103 incapacitatea tinerilor de a g\u0103si ceva care s\u0103 \u00eei fac\u0103 s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc cu adev\u0103rat. Constr\u00e2n\u0219i \u0219i stresa\u0163i de a\u0219tept\u0103rile celor din jur, t\u0103ierea poate fi forma lor de protest din cauza lipsei de suport \u0219i sus\u0163inere din partea celorlal\u0163i. Astfel, singura lor op\u0163iune este s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103 la ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i, recurg\u00e2nd la autoagresiune.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><strong>T\u0102IEREA&#8230;<\/strong> Este o practic\u0103 a adolescen\u021bilor care \u00eei \u00eensp\u0103im\u00e2nt\u0103 pe p\u0103rin\u021bi! Este important s\u0103 nu se pun\u0103 semnul egal \u00eentre autoagresiune \u0219i tentativa de suicid! Autoagresiunea poate fi o modalitate de a face fa\u021b\u0103 problemelor emo\u021bionale, iar acest lucru \u00eel poate face pe adolescent s\u0103 se simt\u0103 mai bine pe moment, sau mai bine spus, c\u0103 nu are o alt\u0103 cale de rezolvare a problemelor. \u00a0De cele mai multe ori, autoagresiunea este \u021binut\u0103 secret fa\u021b\u0103 de cei din jur din cauza ru\u0219inii sau a credin\u021bei c\u0103 nimeni nu va \u00een\u021belege cu adev\u0103rat ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu adolescentul. Din nefericire, secretul \u0219i vinov\u0103\u021bia ajung s\u0103 afecteze rela\u021biile adolescen\u021bilor cu familia \u0219i cu prietenii, ba mai mult, ace\u0219tia vor ajunge s\u0103 se simt\u0103 mai singuri, mai inutili \u0219i vor tr\u0103i ca \u00eentr-un cerc vicios&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Autoagresiunea \u00eencepe de obicei \u00een jurul v\u00e2rstei de 14 ani \u0219i poate continua ani de zile din cauz\u0103 c\u0103 adolescen\u021bii chiar nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103. De cele mai multe ori fetele sunt adeptele autoagresiunii, de\u0219i sunt \u0219i b\u0103ie\u021bi care recurg la aceast\u0103 practic\u0103 de rezolvare de moment a problemelor emo\u021bionale. Totu\u0219i sunt persoane care reu\u0219esc singure s\u0103 se opresc\u0103 din acest comportament, dar din nefericire, prea pu\u0163ine &#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola;\">AUTOAGRESIUNEA \u2013 SIMPTOM AL UNEI PROBLEME PSIHIATRICE?<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00centr-adev\u0103r, autoagresiunea poate fi un simptom al unei boli psihiatrice precum tulburarea de personalitate borderline, tulburarea anxioas\u0103, tulburarea bipolar\u0103, schizofrenie, dar de cele mai multe ori cauza sunt problemele emo\u021bionale ale adolescentului. Amestecul de emo\u0163ii care declan\u0219eaz\u0103 autoagresiunea este complex. Rezultatul autoagresiunii are de obicei leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu incapacitatea persoanei de a face fa\u0163\u0103 problemelor psihologice \u00eentr-un mod s\u0103n\u0103tos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola;\">EMO\u021aII CARE POT DECLAN\u0218A AUTOAGRESIUNEA<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Inutilitate<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Singur\u0103tate<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Panic\u0103<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Furie<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Vinov\u0103\u021bie<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Respingere<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Ur\u0103 de sine<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Sexualitate confuz\u0103<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola;\">FACTORII DE RISC \u00ceN AUTOAGRESIUNE<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><strong>V\u00c2RSTA<\/strong>. Persoanele care se autoagreseaz\u0103 sunt de cele mai multe ori cele aflate \u00een perioada de adolescen\u0163\u0103. Autoagresiunea \u00eencepe adesea \u00een anii adolescen\u0163ei timpurii, c\u00e2nd emo\u0163iile sunt mai volatile, tinerii confrunt\u00e2ndu-se cu singur\u0103tatea \u0219i conflictele cu p\u0103rin\u0163ii sau alte autorit\u0103\u0163i;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><strong>ISTORICUL FAMILIAL.<\/strong> Unele dovezi sugereaz\u0103 c\u0103 autoagresiunea este mai frecvent\u0103 la persoanele care au un istoric familial de sinucidere, autoagresiune sau comportamente autodistructive;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><strong>PROBLEME DE VIA\u0162\u0102.<\/strong> Unele persoane care recurg la autoagresiune au fost abuzate sexual, agresate fizic sau emo\u0163ional. De asemenea este posibil s\u0103 fi fost neglijate \u00een copil\u0103rie. Izolarea social\u0103, dificult\u0103\u0163ile \u00eent\u00e2mpinate \u00een timpul vie\u0163ii, condi\u0163iile de via\u0163\u0103 instabile precum \u0219omajul \u0219i divor\u0163ul pot cre\u0219te riscul de autoagresiune;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><strong>PROBLEME PSIHIATRICE.<\/strong> Autoagresiunea este frecvent asociat\u0103 cu anumite boli mintale incluz\u00e2nd tulburarea de personalitate borderline, depresia, anxietatea, abuzul de substan\u0163e, tulburarea de stres post-traumatic \u0219i tulbur\u0103rile de alimenta\u0163ie precum anorexia \u0219i bulimia;<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><strong>ALCOOLUL SAU ABUZUL DE SUBSTAN\u0162E.<\/strong> Persoanele care se automutileaz\u0103 fac adesea acest lucru \u00een timp ce se afl\u0103 sub influen\u0163a alcoolului sau a drogurilor, sau \u00een perioada de ie\u0219ire din dependen\u0163a de aceste substan\u0163e.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola;\">INDICII PENTRU P\u0102RIN\u021aI<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">De obicei adolescen\u021bii se taie cu linii foarte fine, drepte \u0219i deseori paralele, pe antebra\u021be, partea de sus a m\u00e2inii, pe partea frontal\u0103 a trunchiului sau chiar pe picioare. Unii dintre ei folosesc orice parte a corpului pentru autoagresare. Dac\u0103 au probleme cu imaginea corporal\u0103, pot ajunge s\u0103 se taie scriind anumite cuvinte precum \u201eprost \/ proast\u0103\u201d, \u201egras \/ gras\u0103\u201d. Unii ajung chiar s\u0103-\u0219i scrijeleasc\u0103 anumite simboluri, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i provoace arsuri pe corp (de exemplu cu o \u0163igar\u0103), s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 singuri piercinguri pe corp cu obiecte ascu\u021bite, s\u0103-\u0219i smulg\u0103 p\u0103rul. Majoritatea adolescen\u021bilor folosesc mai mult de o metod\u0103 pentru a se autoagresa.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Fi\u021bi aten\u021bi la t\u0103ieturile sau zg\u00e2rieturile care apar \u00eentr-un mod nea\u0219teptat sau \u00eentr-un mod frecvent! Adolescen\u021bii, de cele mai multe ori, spun c\u0103 \u201episica m-a zg\u0103riat!\u201d.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Pute\u021bi g\u0103si pete de s\u00e2nge pe haine, prosoape sau a\u0219ternuturi.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Adolescen\u021bii care se autoagreseaz\u0103 de obicei insist\u0103 s\u0103 poarte haine care s\u0103 le acopere corpul, chiar \u0219i pe timp de var\u0103.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Frecvent pute\u021bi g\u0103si printre lucrurile lor obiecte ascu\u021bite sau care taie cum ar fi: aparate de ras, lame, cu\u021bite, ace, cioburi de sticl\u0103, capace de la sticle, etc.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Schimb\u0103ri ale dispozi\u021biei cum ar fi depresie, anxietate, modific\u0103ri de rela\u021bionare cu cei din jur, schimbarea grupului de prieteni \u0219i chiar performan\u021ba la \u0219coal\u0103 se poate modifica.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola;\">CUM S\u0102 ABORDEZI ADOLESCENTUL CU PROBLEME DE AUTOAGRESIUNE<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><strong>EVIT\u0102<\/strong> s\u0103 \u00eel cer\u021bi, s\u0103 te enervezi, s\u0103 devii isteric sau s\u0103 \u00eel controlezi la fiecare pas \u2013 asta \u00eel va face s\u0103 se \u00eenchid\u0103 mai mult \u00een sine!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><strong>\u00ceNCEARC\u0102<\/strong> s\u0103-\u021bi exprimi \u00eengrijorarea \u0219i faptul c\u0103 e\u0219ti dispus s\u0103 ave\u021bi o discu\u021bie liber\u0103 despre ceea ce simte \u0219i ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 sub nici o form\u0103 nu \u00eel vei pedepsi!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\"><strong>PSIHOTERAPIA<\/strong> este primul pas pe care ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eel faci cu copilul t\u0103u \u00een astfel de momente, dar nu \u00eenainte de a-i spune c\u0103 e\u0219ti gata s\u0103 \u00eel aju\u021bi \u0219i c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu dore\u0219te s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 cu tine, un psiholog cu siguran\u021b\u0103 \u00eel poate ajuta! \u00cen cazul \u00een care adolescentul refuz\u0103 psihoterapia, po\u021bi tu, ca p\u0103rinte, s\u0103 urmezi un proces terapeutic care te va ajuta s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu copilul t\u0103u \u0219i cum \u00eel po\u021bi ajuta s\u0103 ias\u0103 din dificultate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">psiholg clinician \u2013 psihoterapeut,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Eliza Geanina Cogian<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: Gabriola; font-size: 24px;\">Copierea sau reproducerea f\u0103r\u0103 men\u021bionarea sursei este strict interzis\u0103!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 De ce ar dori cineva s\u0103 se taie? O ac\u0163iune at\u00e2t de ciudat\u0103 pentru cei mai mul\u0163i dintre noi, autoagresiunea f\u0103r\u0103 inten\u0163ie de sinucidere cum ar fi t\u0103ierea, arderea sau zg\u00e2rierea inten\u0163ionat\u0103, este o problem\u0103 major\u0103 pe care majoritatea oamenilor nu o \u00een\u0163eleg prea mult. <br \/>\n <a class=\"read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/2018\/04\/19\/autoagresiunea-si-taierea\/\">READ MORE<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":374,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-373","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-parinti-si-copii"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/AUTOAGRESIUNEA-SI-TAIEREA.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/373","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=373"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/373\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":375,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/373\/revisions\/375"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/374"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=373"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=373"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psihologterapeutiasi.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=373"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}